1. Chaz_O's Avatar
    Hey All,
    My wife & I have been experiencing some issues with BB Mess. Since I have had a phone exchange she will send a request to add me as a contact and I will except , but it still shows as pending on her end? and even tho I have her shown as a contact I will still receive another pending as well. Does anyone have a suggestion.....should we delete the app & re-install?

    Thanks again Peeps
    03-13-08 09:52 PM
  2. DearFloyd's Avatar
    Try adding by email. Request each other even though one requested the other (if you got that)
    03-13-08 09:56 PM
  3. Chaz_O's Avatar
    how do you do that????
    Try adding by email. Request each other even though one requested the other (if you got that)
    03-13-08 10:05 PM
  4. DearFloyd's Avatar
    she will send a request to add me as a contact and I will except
    Umm, the same way she did that ^
    03-13-08 10:17 PM
  5. Chaz_O's Avatar
    I must say you lost me Homie!
    she request me threw "add contact" on her BB Mess. Not Via e-mail?
    03-13-08 10:21 PM
  6. DearFloyd's Avatar
    Open blackberry messenger
    Hit menu
    select "add a contact"
    scroll all the way up to "use once"
    DO NOT HIT ENTER
    press menu again
    now select "request by email" or "request by pin"
    both of you do this
    03-13-08 10:29 PM
  7. Chaz_O's Avatar
    NOW I feel you ......



    Open blackberry messenger
    Hit menu
    select "add a contact"
    scroll all the way up to "use once"
    DO NOT HIT ENTER
    press menu again
    now select "request by email" or "request by pin"
    both of you do this
    03-13-08 10:31 PM
  8. Chaz_O's Avatar
    mines worked,Still Won't show up on my wifey'z.....all the steps go threw and once she accepts my name disappears


    Open blackberry messenger
    Hit menu
    select "add a contact"
    scroll all the way up to "use once"
    DO NOT HIT ENTER
    press menu again
    now select "request by email" or "request by pin"
    both of you do this
    03-13-08 10:37 PM
  9. Roxy's Avatar
    I had to add people to my address book to get it to work. After I added them to my address book, I sent a request and it worked instantly. I only get the issue sometimes. Don't know why.
    03-13-08 10:45 PM
  10. jsanders's Avatar
    This just happened as well with a group of my friends when one changed BBs.

    Delete both of you from each other's contact list in BBM, and the pending list. Pull the battery and reboot... make sure both are clear, none of each are remaining. Make certain no old conversations with either of you are open.

    THEN, add each other PIN.
    03-13-08 10:46 PM
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