Would you ever have your parents fight your battles for you?
I'm just curious if this is normal or not...
See I'm a very private person when it comes to relationships. I like to keep the problems in a relationship between myself and the bf, because I figure such personal info should stay between the two involved parties only.
Now my ex bf would always go squeal to his mom if we had any problems. Recently we broke up, and I will admit I was in the wrong for making threats to him. You know how it goes when you break up with an ex... things get heated, that sort of thing. Of course I never threatened any physical harm or that I would kill him, or even show up at his house, just that I would harrass him via phone/ email and try to make his life a living ****. Again, I admit I was in the wrong and should have kept my dumb mouth shut in the heat of the moment.
Next thing you know he shows up at my house with his mother, wanting to talk to my mom. My mom really didn't want to talk to them because she likes to stay out of other peoples business. Of course they kept banging at my doors and windows and kept that up for 5-10 minutes. She had to listen to his mother threaten to call the cops on me, etc. Of course my mom was upset, and I feel like a **** for making her go thru that. I agreed to buy her some nice perfume for her troubles.
But what do you guys think?
He's 23 years old, in case that makes any difference.