What is going through her mind?
Background information - we've been dating almost 13 months, she's 18, I'm 20.
So my girlfriend went away to school 10+ hours away two weeks ago, and she already transferred home because it was too far. While she WAS there, she would text/call me constantly saying how much she missed me, missed home, and how all she did was cry. She then tells me the other day that she just talked to her mom, and she is coming home because she can't do the whole semester there. Then, she starts texting me saying how she thinks we should take a "break", so she can have some space because she's not sure what she wants to do, or if she wants to date me. I talked to her just before and she said her mom made her realize that I'm holding her back from achieving her goals, and she said "my mom said you're holding me back, and I really believe her". She said she's "done" with the dating "scene", and she just wants to do her own thing - but she was quick to say that she doesn't want to date anyone else, she just doesn't want to date.
Anyway, she said we'll talk about this tomorrow in person. Is this going to be a talk where she just gives me stuff back, or does it sound like she wants to actually talk it out? One thing she's always saying is how I "*****" if she hangs out with her friends - which is completely false - how can I make her see that? Is there any way to save this relationship? It seems stupid to just throw away a 13 month relationship because of something her mom sad. I don't understand how one day (when she was away at school), she was in "love" with me, but then she transfers home and all of a sudden everything falls apart.