Originally Posted by
gregerator My wife left me because she "lied to me on the altar and never was really *in* love with me". She claimed I was a safe bet in that she knew I'd never be an alcoholic, never abuse her, always provide for her, put her first etc. Apparently that wasn't enough. 7 years of life. And while I'm glad she didn't drag it out even longer I hate being alone. I had hoped to have kids by now and miss sharing my life with someone. I try not to be bitter about it but it isn't always easy. I'm against divorce and we did do a bit of counseling but she wasn't ever in the game in the first place. I can say I came across a pretty solid book in the aftermath. His Needs, Her Needs. If anyone is serious about seeing a marriage through I would highly suggest it. It helped me see who I can be for my future spouse.
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