1. Username0223's Avatar
    Hi Wolf-no nothing....I think her whole deal is just giving her "one of those days" I hope she's ok-i'l prob try to PM her later.

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    05-13-09 01:29 PM
  2. Username0223's Avatar
    I'm chillin' like a villian cuz I'm illin' for some thrillin'. LOL I couldn't find another word other than thrillin!

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    05-13-09 01:31 PM
  3. Coruptyed's Avatar
    What's going on wolf ? Busy today?

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    05-13-09 01:31 PM
  4. BigBadWulf's Avatar
    Thanks Pink, please do. I worry about that kid. Let me know if I can do anything to help.

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    05-13-09 01:35 PM
  5. Username0223's Avatar
    Thanks Pink, please do. I worry about that kid. Let me know if I can do anything to help.

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    Will do Wolf

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    05-13-09 01:37 PM
  6. sodakitty's Avatar
    Things have just been rough between me and Elgin. We've been falling into stupid arguments and disagreements over seemingly little things. His short temper is getting the better of him, and I'm bored and getting petty.

    We were looking over the bank account and I said "wait a minute..." To the screen because I saw a charge I didn't recognize. And he raised his voice and said "don't take that tone with me!" And went on and I tried to explain why I said that and he said I was interrupting him and continued raising his voice and saying I was taking a tone.
    And so of course I was getting flustered and he took that as me being a *****. And then the argument began. I told him, "control yourself because in any situation that's all a person can do..you can't control me and I can't control you." And he's all, "oh, it's all my fault. You're a saint. It's always my fault." So I left. Like two hours ago.
    I just drove around...called my mom...went to the bank...picked up his prescriptions....
    I have hardly any friends after moving to the eastside. So I have nobody to go hang out with...y'know, just go get a coffee and chill out.
    And I texted him 45 minutes ago to say "I love you" and he hasn't gotten back to me. I'm sitting in the parking lot waiting for mail to come. Sigh.

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    05-13-09 01:42 PM
  7. sodakitty's Avatar
    And thanks for caring, guys. You're all very sweet.
    Wish I could drive down the street and hang out with y'all. *grin*

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    05-13-09 01:45 PM
  8. Username0223's Avatar
    Things have just been rough between me and Elgin. We've been falling into stupid arguments and disagreements over seemingly little things. His short temper is getting the better of him, and I'm bored and getting petty.

    We were looking over the bank account and I said "wait a minute..." To the screen because I saw a charge I didn't recognize. And he raised his voice and said "don't take that tone with me!" And went on and I tried to explain why I said that and he said I was interrupting him and continued raising his voice and saying I was taking a tone.
    And so of course I was getting flustered and he took that as me being a *****. And then the argument began. I told him, "control yourself because in any situation that's all a person can do..you can't control me and I can't control you." And he's all, "oh, it's all my fault. You're a saint. It's always my fault." So I left. Like two hours ago.
    I just drove around...called my mom...went to the bank...picked up his prescriptions....
    I have hardly any friends after moving to the eastside. So I have nobody to go hang out with...y'know, just go get a coffee and chill out.
    And I texted him 45 minutes ago to say "I love you" and he hasn't gotten back to me. I'm sitting in the parking lot waiting for mail to come. Sigh.

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    you have perfect timing, i was just about to PM you to make sure your kitty azz was ok!!!! lol

    Im sorry to hear that you guys are hitting a rough patch rite now, you also have to consider how much stress the 2 of you have gone thru within the last month and a half...from his health issues to yours. Your saying hes short fused lately--perhaps a side effect from one of his medications? worth looking into, not that it gives him an excuse to bite your head off. I dont think you should have left tho, i think maybe you shouldve tried to calm him down and talk it out. Would you consider counseling? would he? just a thought.
    05-13-09 01:49 PM
  9. chad177's Avatar
    good afternoon everyone
    05-13-09 01:55 PM
  10. sodakitty's Avatar
    I don't think it's bad enough that we need counseling. It never gets this bad. He was just being rude, then blamed me for his messing up calling in a prescription refill, cussed something out, and went out on the patio (slamming the door) for a (nasty) cigarette. That's when I grabbed my sweatshirt and keys.

    If it continues, I will suggest counseling. We both aren't perfect, but he has a tendency to have a short fuse. He told me many a time that, when he was younger, he was a very angry, quick-tempered person. I see that his younger self likes to visit sometimes.
    And I'll check his meds, because that's a possibility. Maybe he should get something else to counter the effects, if that's the case.
    His dad had anger issues, and took prozac, which, according to both his dad and mom, made life a lot easier. He's mentioned it once or twice before anyway. Heck, I know that when I was younger, my mom stuck me on pills and it made me muuuch less irritable.

    Anyway...he just called. Apparently he slept it off while I was gone and just woke up.

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    05-13-09 01:58 PM
  11. BergerKing's Avatar
    Ahhhhh, the rare luxury of sleeping in. Whisper of cool air as I pull the blankets in and stretchhhhh, oh and glory!

    The rain has lulled me, as storms roll through. The patter of rain on my roof, rising to a throbbing pulse, FLASH! CRASH! The heavens split open, the winds howl around the windows, and yet, I rest.

    I rise and pull the shades. Silvery streaks meander down to join rivers of water, drip, dripping down to the asphalt. Jewelike, black paint gleams, cleansed by this natural tide.

    Paperwork done, turn the magic key, a quick whine of the starter, and the mighty Cat growls her pleasure, settling into a content purr.

    A hiss of air, the click of stick, and gears mesh smoothly together; the symmetry of motion has begun.

    Click, click, click, she winks at oncoming traffic, flirting with other cars. The turn is made, this Cat she sings, the ribbon of road beckons, a new day, it has begun.

    Howdy, everyone! As you can tell, I slept well. Looking forward to one of my favorite breakfasts in a few minutes. Chile relleno omelet at the Powhatan Restaurant, Pocahontas, IL. I don't get to have it often, so it's a treat today!

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    05-13-09 02:13 PM
  12. Coruptyed's Avatar
    Quite the story Berger guess your days going good

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    05-13-09 02:33 PM
  13. sodakitty's Avatar
    Wow. Quite the writing style, King!

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    05-13-09 02:35 PM
  14. bsskinns's Avatar
    Hello Everyone. I think I understand now, wolf. Thanks berger.
    05-13-09 02:37 PM
  15. BigBadWulf's Avatar
    Hello Everyone. I think I understand now, wolf. Thanks berger.
    Hey there skin, glad you decided to take my invite. Welcome to the addiction within the addiction! Enjoy your stay, there's no escape.

    Sodakitty, what's going on?

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    05-13-09 02:42 PM
  16. chad177's Avatar
    hey wolf,

    kitty sorry to here about whats going, i was in crappy situation in a relationship before, it sucks
    05-13-09 02:46 PM
  17. KasiCatastrophe's Avatar
    Good afternoon TBL! How's everyone's day going?
    05-13-09 03:02 PM
  18. chad177's Avatar
    Good afternoon TBL! How's everyone's day going?
    just layin around before i go into work tonight
    05-13-09 03:04 PM
  19. BergerKing's Avatar
    Wow. Quite the writing style, King!

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    Well, seems I was writing that as you were writhing in anguish, and I'm sorry to hear your day isn't going well. I've been there, and this can be a painful situation to endure, but, this too shall pass.

    This is a good place, with people who care what happens to you, so at least you can talk to us. I know it may not be face-to-face, but it beats ponderous silence.

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    05-13-09 03:08 PM
  20. Username0223's Avatar
    I don't think it's bad enough that we need counseling. It never gets this bad. He was just being rude, then blamed me for his messing up calling in a prescription refill, cussed something out, and went out on the patio (slamming the door) for a (nasty) cigarette. That's when I grabbed my sweatshirt and keys.

    If it continues, I will suggest counseling. We both aren't perfect, but he has a tendency to have a short fuse. He told me many a time that, when he was younger, he was a very angry, quick-tempered person. I see that his younger self likes to visit sometimes.
    And I'll check his meds, because that's a possibility. Maybe he should get something else to counter the effects, if that's the case.
    His dad had anger issues, and took prozac, which, according to both his dad and mom, made life a lot easier. He's mentioned it once or twice before anyway. Heck, I know that when I was younger, my mom stuck me on pills and it made me muuuch less irritable.

    Anyway...he just called. Apparently he slept it off while I was gone and just woke up.

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    sorry took me so long-had to get the kids from school and start dinner....

    well just a suggestion-dont let things get too far before it too late and counseling wouldnt help. As for the anger issues, unfortunately the apple doesnt fall far from the tree, meaning that he learned this behavior from his dad when he was a little kid himself and found it to be a "normal" behavior that roots its ugly head sometimes. With your help, he can eventually learn to control that more to the point that it wont happen anymore. but he has to also help himself recogonize when its about to occur. i hope this helps you somewhat. PM me if you need to talk again

    05-13-09 03:10 PM
  21. Username0223's Avatar
    hey chad, bk and kasi!
    05-13-09 03:10 PM
  22. Username0223's Avatar
    Ahhhhh, the rare luxury of sleeping in. Whisper of cool air as I pull the blankets in and stretchhhhh, oh and glory!

    The rain has lulled me, as storms roll through. The patter of rain on my roof, rising to a throbbing pulse, FLASH! CRASH! The heavens split open, the winds howl around the windows, and yet, I rest.

    I rise and pull the shades. Silvery streaks meander down to join rivers of water, drip, dripping down to the asphalt. Jewelike, black paint gleams, cleansed by this natural tide.

    Paperwork done, turn the magic key, a quick whine of the starter, and the mighty Cat growls her pleasure, settling into a content purr.

    A hiss of air, the click of stick, and gears mesh smoothly together; the symmetry of motion has begun.

    Click, click, click, she winks at oncoming traffic, flirting with other cars. The turn is made, this Cat she sings, the ribbon of road beckons, a new day, it has begun.

    Howdy, everyone! As you can tell, I slept well. Looking forward to one of my favorite breakfasts in a few minutes. Chile relleno omelet at the Powhatan Restaurant, Pocahontas, IL. I don't get to have it often, so it's a treat today!

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    BK-there is a poetic monster lurking inside of you!! thats some writing my friend.....
    05-13-09 03:12 PM
  23. chad177's Avatar
    hey shelli, whats for dinner?
    05-13-09 03:13 PM
  24. BergerKing's Avatar
    Shelli, sometimes the frustrated writer in me just pours out. Frustrated because I cannot put a harness on this monster and ride it for all it's worth. I have tried, but when I pull out the gear, and turn around, the monster is racing into the tall trees, growling, gnashing his teeth, and shaking his craggy head.

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    05-13-09 03:19 PM
  25. JustPlainJef's Avatar
    Hello all. Got home from work and took a short nap with the dog. Still beat...

    BK, stop on up. I'm only 5 hours north or so...

    Hello Chad and Kasi and Wolfman and Shelli.....

    ...*makes C a martini*...

    Sorry about the delay. It's on me.
    05-13-09 03:24 PM
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