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  1. Norli's Avatar
    I am 24 years old, 25 in 6 weeks and I have yet to kiss a girl...

    Am I doomed to eternal virginity?
    04-07-11 07:02 AM
  2. Technerd.McLeod's Avatar
    Sounds like it.
    04-07-11 07:40 AM
  3. gdanonym's Avatar
    Yes. Don't worry so much and live your life! Thats the most important thing.

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    04-07-11 07:41 AM
  4. pkcable's Avatar
    One thing you can try is to work your way up to it. Start out by making a commitment to having a short, friendly conversation with a new woman each day. NO pressure on yourself, no thought of a date, or phone number or anything, JUST a conversation. Do that for a couple weeks. Then after you are comfortable with just chatting with women you meet, work your way up to asking for a phone number, REMEMBER, you are not asking for a date, or sex (YET) just a phone number. If they ask why, say you'd like to get to know them better and continue the conversation and see where it goes. If they say, I have a boyfriend, or husband or something like that, then accept it, and move on. IF you run in to one of those women you met during that first phase, make it a point to have a 2nd conversation with them, and try to get the number. Again no pressure, no date, no kiss, sex, etc, YET. Then in about a week you can try calling from those numbers you have, OR trying meeting a woman, getting a number AND then in a couple days (NEVER the same day) calling and asking for a date, JUST a date.

    I think you get the picture, you got to work your way up, and you got to make a start. And don't beat yourself up about the past. Give it a shot, it works!!!
    04-07-11 09:50 AM
  5. highjakker's Avatar
    yeah but how many guys have you kissed?
    04-07-11 10:11 AM
  6. cwhitney24's Avatar
    Pay a hooker/escort. You can get your first kiss and virginity taken care of in one short 30 min session!

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    04-07-11 10:11 AM
  7. cwhitney24's Avatar
    yeah but how many guys have you kissed?

    Good question

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    04-07-11 10:12 AM
  8. jabbs1's Avatar
    Tip: if they say something you don't like, don't threaten to knock them out. It might help a little.
    04-07-11 11:14 AM
  9. AbuYazeedUK's Avatar
    Pay a hooker/escort. You can get your first kiss and virginity taken care of in one short 30 min session!

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    04-07-11 11:17 AM
  10. Norli's Avatar
    One thing you can try is to work your way up to it. Start out by making a commitment to having a short, friendly conversation with a new woman each day. NO pressure on yourself, no thought of a date, or phone number or anything, JUST a conversation. Do that for a couple weeks. Then after you are comfortable with just chatting with women you meet, work your way up to asking for a phone number, REMEMBER, you are not asking for a date, or sex (YET) just a phone number. If they ask why, say you'd like to get to know them better and continue the conversation and see where it goes. If they say, I have a boyfriend, or husband or something like that, then accept it, and move on. IF you run in to one of those women you met during that first phase, make it a point to have a 2nd conversation with them, and try to get the number. Again no pressure, no date, no kiss, sex, etc, YET. Then in about a week you can try calling from those numbers you have, OR trying meeting a woman, getting a number AND then in a couple days (NEVER the same day) calling and asking for a date, JUST a date.

    I think you get the picture, you got to work your way up, and you got to make a start. And don't beat yourself up about the past. Give it a shot, it works!!!

    Thanks a lot man!! But how do I get to meet women? I only know one girl at my university and I am not interested in her.
    04-07-11 05:09 PM
  11. hootyhoo's Avatar
    Where do you go to school? There is only one girl there? There must be more. Just be nice. Ask about them. Don't talk too much about yourself (they don't care) . Girls like to know that you want to know about them. Don't come on too strong or you'll freak them out. Start slow.

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    04-07-11 07:31 PM
  12. Norli's Avatar
    Where do you go to school? There is only one girl there? There must be more. Just be nice. Ask about them. Don't talk too much about yourself (they don't care) . Girls like to know that you want to know about them. Don't come on too strong or you'll freak them out. Start slow.

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    There's a few thousand girls at my school, but I only know one. And I don't want to hit on girls at school, that might ruin my reputation.
    04-08-11 06:40 AM
  13. cwhitney24's Avatar
    There's a few thousand girls at my school, but I only know one. And I don't want to hit on girls at school, that might ruin my reputation.
    Ruin you reputation? What is your reputation there? I mean the movie 40 year old virgin should come to mind when you think of your reputation. Look you don't need to "hit" on everyone, but u do need to meet more people. Start talking to people. Say hi in passing to different girls. If you stay in a dorm or apartment complex start to say hello whenever u see someone. Go to a local hangout or restaurant with friends. If you wanting a first kiss and something nice and sweet then to that. If you want to "clean the pipes" and get you first notch in your adult belt then hit up a club on a late friday night. Before I was married it was guaranteed play time for me at the clubs...and I didn't even like night clubs.

    The only way to build up your confidence is to try. Sounds like u have a fear of rejection. People always hear or say no. Just like in sales...a no is only a yes in disguise waiting for you to turn it around.

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    04-08-11 07:05 AM
  14. hootyhoo's Avatar
    Prepare yourself for a few no's. Not every girl you meet is going to be interested no matter how great you may think you are. But there will be yeses too. But you have to start talking to them first.

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    04-08-11 07:10 AM
  15. middbrew's Avatar
    Thanks a lot man!! But how do I get to meet women? I only know one girl at my university and I am not interested in her.
    You only know one girl and you have eliminated her? I'm thinking you should be so selective.

    Let me help you out with the math: 1 -1 = 0. This is what you have left yourself.
    04-08-11 12:10 PM
  16. amanda09joe's Avatar
    I think that you are doomed if you don't go out and try. No offense you seem like the type to sit in your room and not go anywhere. Make friends go out!!!!
    04-08-11 12:20 PM
  17. xxxxpradaxxxx's Avatar
    If you don't want to go out and meet new people and *ruin* your reputation then you will never be kissed.

    If you are that worried about ruining your reputation-

    Well I have news for you, it's probably already ruined.

    Move on.

    Live life.

    Everything will happen, when your living life, according to how it needs to happen.

    But if you live the life of a hermit crab, don't expect things to happen outside of your shell.
    04-08-11 01:02 PM
  18. amanda09joe's Avatar
    If you don't want to go out and meet new people and *ruin* your reputation then you will never be kissed.

    If you are that worried about ruining your reputation-

    Well I have news for you, it's probably already ruined.

    Move on.

    Live life.

    Everything will happen, when your living life, according to how it needs to happen.

    But if you live the life of a hermit crab, don't expect things to happen outside of your shell.


    Nicely put!!!
    04-08-11 01:21 PM
  19. middbrew's Avatar

    But if you live the life of a hermit crab, don't expect things to happen outside of your shell.
    If you live your life like a hermit crab, you will never experience other crabs
    04-08-11 01:26 PM
  20. amanda09joe's Avatar
    If you live your life like a hermit crab, you will never experience other crabs
    All I have to say is .... LMFAO
    04-08-11 01:30 PM
  21. B_Blaire's Avatar
    If you live your life like a hermit crab, you will never experience other crabs
    If you live your life like a hermit crab, you wiil never experience other crap! lol

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    04-08-11 01:34 PM
  22. pkcable's Avatar
    04-08-11 01:56 PM
  23. hootyhoo's Avatar
    You can always find the answer on YouTube.

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    04-08-11 02:05 PM
  24. highjakker's Avatar
    doesn't your mom count?
    04-08-11 04:27 PM
  25. amanda09joe's Avatar
    doesn't your mom count?
    That is gross lol.
    04-08-11 04:46 PM
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