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- One thing you can try is to work your way up to it. Start out by making a commitment to having a short, friendly conversation with a new woman each day. NO pressure on yourself, no thought of a date, or phone number or anything, JUST a conversation. Do that for a couple weeks. Then after you are comfortable with just chatting with women you meet, work your way up to asking for a phone number, REMEMBER, you are not asking for a date, or sex (YET) just a phone number. If they ask why, say you'd like to get to know them better and continue the conversation and see where it goes. If they say, I have a boyfriend, or husband or something like that, then accept it, and move on. IF you run in to one of those women you met during that first phase, make it a point to have a 2nd conversation with them, and try to get the number. Again no pressure, no date, no kiss, sex, etc, YET. Then in about a week you can try calling from those numbers you have, OR trying meeting a woman, getting a number AND then in a couple days (NEVER the same day) calling and asking for a date, JUST a date.
I think you get the picture, you got to work your way up, and you got to make a start. And don't beat yourself up about the past. Give it a shot, it works!!!04-07-11 09:50 AMLike 0 -
- Pay a hooker/escort. You can get your first kiss and virginity taken care of in one short 30 min session!
Posted from my CrackBerry at wapforums.crackberry.com04-07-11 10:11 AMLike 0 -
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- One thing you can try is to work your way up to it. Start out by making a commitment to having a short, friendly conversation with a new woman each day. NO pressure on yourself, no thought of a date, or phone number or anything, JUST a conversation. Do that for a couple weeks. Then after you are comfortable with just chatting with women you meet, work your way up to asking for a phone number, REMEMBER, you are not asking for a date, or sex (YET) just a phone number. If they ask why, say you'd like to get to know them better and continue the conversation and see where it goes. If they say, I have a boyfriend, or husband or something like that, then accept it, and move on. IF you run in to one of those women you met during that first phase, make it a point to have a 2nd conversation with them, and try to get the number. Again no pressure, no date, no kiss, sex, etc, YET. Then in about a week you can try calling from those numbers you have, OR trying meeting a woman, getting a number AND then in a couple days (NEVER the same day) calling and asking for a date, JUST a date.
I think you get the picture, you got to work your way up, and you got to make a start. And don't beat yourself up about the past. Give it a shot, it works!!!
Thanks a lot man!! But how do I get to meet women? I only know one girl at my university and I am not interested in her.04-07-11 05:09 PMLike 0 - Where do you go to school? There is only one girl there? There must be more. Just be nice. Ask about them. Don't talk too much about yourself (they don't care) . Girls like to know that you want to know about them. Don't come on too strong or you'll freak them out. Start slow.
Posted from my CrackBerry at wapforums.crackberry.com04-07-11 07:31 PMLike 0 - Where do you go to school? There is only one girl there? There must be more. Just be nice. Ask about them. Don't talk too much about yourself (they don't care) . Girls like to know that you want to know about them. Don't come on too strong or you'll freak them out. Start slow.
Posted from my CrackBerry at wapforums.crackberry.com04-08-11 06:40 AMLike 0 -
The only way to build up your confidence is to try. Sounds like u have a fear of rejection. People always hear or say no. Just like in sales...a no is only a yes in disguise waiting for you to turn it around.
Posted from my CrackBerry at wapforums.crackberry.com04-08-11 07:05 AMLike 0 -
Let me help you out with the math: 1 -1 = 0. This is what you have left yourself.04-08-11 12:10 PMLike 0 - I think that you are doomed if you don't go out and try. No offense you seem like the type to sit in your room and not go anywhere. Make friends go out!!!!04-08-11 12:20 PMLike 0
- If you don't want to go out and meet new people and *ruin* your reputation then you will never be kissed.
If you are that worried about ruining your reputation-
Well I have news for you, it's probably already ruined.
Move on.
Live life.
Everything will happen, when your living life, according to how it needs to happen.
But if you live the life of a hermit crab, don't expect things to happen outside of your shell.04-08-11 01:02 PMLike 0 - If you don't want to go out and meet new people and *ruin* your reputation then you will never be kissed.
If you are that worried about ruining your reputation-
Well I have news for you, it's probably already ruined.
Move on.
Live life.
Everything will happen, when your living life, according to how it needs to happen.
But if you live the life of a hermit crab, don't expect things to happen outside of your shell.
Nicely put!!!04-08-11 01:21 PMLike 0 -
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