Unless you egged on that type of reaction from her; or wanted that type of reaction...or downright draw immense satisfaction from words/actions of a negative nature even though you don't like it...you may have underlying issues champ.
Unless she did something really terrible to you when you were together then I don't think it is right to feel that way. It is selfish and childish to feel happy knowing she is miserable. If you truly loved the person you would want her to be happy, even if she isn't with you any longer. It takes a mature person to want that for someone they love.
Sedative, I'm going to ask this again. Why the heck are you still in contact with your ex? I saw in another thread that you said she wouldn't answer your phone calls when you were "trying to give her money." Bro, whether she miserable or not, worry about yourself. Usually when someone can't get over an ex is because they're not meeting other people. And to be happy about her misery tells me you're obsessed.
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Seriously, leave the poor guy alone- he's just saying out loud what we have all felt at one time or another. Some of us just don't have the nuts to verbalize it!
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Sedative, I'm going to ask this again. Why the heck are you still in contact with your ex? I saw in another thread that you said she wouldn't answer your phone calls when you were "trying to give her money." Bro, whether she miserable or not, worry about yourself. Usually when someone can't get over an ex is because they're not meeting other people. And to be happy about her misery tells me you're obsessed.
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I'm still in contact with her because she still has some of my stuff, and shes dictating when I can come and get it.
Also, I'm not so much obsessed with her as much as I am getting my things back.
