Stickies Notes on Blackberry?

I just started using my Blackberry 8310 and everything has worked really well so far in terms of syncing with my Intel MacBook Pro. I was hoping that someone might be able to tell me:

1. Where do my stickies notes from my mac end up on my blackberry. I don't see anything in "memos". Or can I only transfer from blackberry to my mac- and if so, do I write a "memo" and then it is supposed to show up as a sticky note? that hasn't worked yet either.

2. Transferring music to blackberry from mac?? Do I need an SD card? Do I need the Missing Sync program?? What are the easiest and most organized ways to do this, if possible?

Thanks for any suggestions and support.