Newbie BBM help.

Ok, so i'm pretty new to BB's in general. I understand how BBM works and what not. However I'm having difficulty with understanding why after sending out invitations to other users, their PIN stays down in the pending status area of BBM for DAYS on end. But if I receive the invite and accept it, they pop up to my contacts area immediatly. As I send requests my contacts numbers grow but still say 0/10...

I know I'm probably gonna get some of you to say that I have to wait for them to accept the invitation. But its been days since, and I believe dont you get an alert the second somebody adds you? Just kinda weird, any suggestions? Thanks in advance.

You might be adding them wrong. When you hit add contact, go to the top to use once, hit the app button and go to by pin. Try that if you haven't. Other than that sounds like they just haven't accepted it yet. That's why its pending. Hope this helps. Welcome th Crackberry

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yea i had that problem but then i accidently clicked that app button and saw request by pin and then i knew what i was doing wrong

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Hi and Welcome to CB

Thanks everyone, I got it figured out with Greg's help in no time. I was figuring something just wasn't right. Seems to be kind of a hassle to always scroll to the top to add it by PIN everytime, but I still love the phone lol.

I also have to add that CB is a great community. Thanks again.