It seems every time I add a person to BIM [black berry instant messenger] *I* get the request and they don't
I think it has something to do with the fact that my primary email account is Gmail,and it seems all outgoing mail in gmail gets copied to the inbox.. maybe this has todo with it?
In order to add someone u need to go to add contact, scroll to top where it says use once, and press bb button and click add by pin. Then enter the pin and follow the instructions.
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