okay well I am downloading the programs right now so that might take a while and okay so I downloaded the OS 4.5.0.169 from the official Blackberry website so yeah.
Also after I open the application loader what do I do
1) connect phone to USB cable
2) Open DM
3) If a dialog box comes up for you to upgrade CANCEL it
4) Click Application Loader
5) Click Start
6) You should see an apps list with the several marked as
"Upgrade"
7) Check off BB Attachment Service, BB Messenger and any
other applications you want installed.
8) Click next. This will bring up a list of what is being installed
9) Click next
10) Let it run and under NO CIRCUMSTANCE disconnect your
phone from the USB. This could take 45 minute or more to
complete.
Okay I get to step 5 and there is two the add and remove and update box and the upgrade doesn't come out and just to let you know I have v5.0 Desktop Manager so yeah