Turning off teh wireless syncronization on my Bold9000 in order to...

I've tried pretty much just about anything I've seen up here or elsewhere in regards to disabling wireless sycronization on the device in order for me to use BB desktop manager to syncronize the contacts in my MS outlook to my BB phone(Bold 9000)...

When I tried to sync the contacts from my MS outlook to my BB phone, the system keeps pupign up this message:
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Syncronization is currently unavailable for "Address Book"
because teh application is configuered for wireless syncronization.
Desktop syncronization for the above application will be disabled.

Please click help for information on how to disable wireless syncronization
on your device.
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Somebody kill me alreay...oy...dying...this is driving me insane :mad:

Help!
Help!
Help!