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Simply put....You need to whup his a$$!So me and my brother just got in a fight
and you'll NEVER guess what he did!
he picked up my blackberry and THREW it down the hall and it hit the door way
very very sad. i couldn't believe it.
i literally cried for an hour and a half.
and i don't mean small itty bitty tears
full on cryinggg
cracked screen
he has no money either, so he's not going to replace it.
and he won't get a job because hes lazy
this is not good. what should i do besides kill him?!
10-10-08 10:46 PM - Howdy Zoi,
Here is something I have done in the past with my brothers. Once I realized that fighting them was something they enjoyed, and I got tired of helping in replacing bed rooms doors and patching sheet rock in our bedrooms.
Don't say anything, when he least expects it, take something of his of equal value. Must be something that he uses/enjoy, do not pick gifts given by other people to him, but things he bought.
Go to the nearest Pawn shop and pawn it. Use money to replace/repair your item. Any money left over you hand to him and say Thanks.
If he asks you where his item is, you can truthfully say ... "I don't know" because as soon as you leave the pawn shop, you won't know where it is.
If he asks you what the money is for, you can say, you thought he could use it.
One day I was digging through a box of stuff 20 years later, and found a lot of those old pawn tickets, so I mailed all the pawn tickets to my brothers, telling them thanks again, for fixing/replacing/cleaning this or that. LOL
No more fighting with your brother. But do tell him and your parents, in the future, if he decides to destroy anything of yours, in a fight, you will pepper spray him, and call the police for domestic violence. Be calm when you relay the message, and mean it. And if it were me (as the tiny sister), I would have already filed a police report for damaged property.... to start a nice little paper trail to show brother dear that he might be 6'6" and 250, but his little sister can kick his legs out from under him at any second. And to your parents I'd also add, I do not intend to be the first woman that he man handles, because if I am, I'm going to be the first woman to put his 6'6" 250 pound rump in jail.
Oh and Zoi, it's a phone, no more crying. Cry if a friend dies, cry if your pet dies, but no crying over broken things.10-11-08 07:49 AM
what camera? What guitar?