so i have a question about file transfering i have a bb data plan and my wife doesnt she only texts her one friend who doesnt have a bb anyway, can i transfer an ota theme i downloaded to my phone to her phone in anyway without the cable because im about 1400 miles from my house can you transfer through bluetooth or anything?
1400 miles is out of range for Bluetooth, but a lot.
Does your Wife have access to a Windows computer with email and BlackBerry Desktop Manager installed? That would let you send the theme file as an attachment to be installed by DTM.