Bluetooth PAINS!!!!!!!

Why is it sooo difficult to use the bluetooth on my Curve. Can someone please answer?
I have been trying for about a week now. I have installed the MS bluetooth stack, I have paired the device, I have set the device to be discoverable, there are services listed for the device, and there are no services listed for the Laptop. But the Desktop Mgr and the Device mgr are unable to find the BB device.

Does anyone know how to fix this?

Well, I figured it out. I connected the device via USB cable, then added the device via bluetooth with the cable connected. Everything worked after that.

Just in case anyone is having the same problem.