Alerts in BT headset too (reminders, SMS etc)?

Is there any way (even if I need a 3rd party app to do it) to allow me to hear alerts for reminders, SMS etc in my BT headset the same as I can phone calls?

All too often, I don't feel it vibe while in the holster. But usually, if it's in the holster I'm most likely also wearing my BT headset.

On the flipside, there are some phone numbers from which I occasionally receive phone calls and I prefer to ignore them. I had been using an app which basically changed the ringtone for those numbers to SILENT. But when calls come in from those numbers, my headset DOES provide an audio alert. Is there a way to tell the BT headset NOT to do so for those phone numbers?

TIA!

There are some apps that allow your sms and email messages to be read to you thru your headset. Vlingo and Drivesafe.ly to name a few.