I really appreciate all the input and information. It's really what i was hoping to hear. I think all new model berry's have issues when they were first released, I know the storm sure as **** did. I love my storm now, most of my problems are gone completely (little bit of lag in SMS typing sometimes, only complaint really). I had been thinking of trading it for a storm though when my contract renewal came out, I do miss a hardware keyboard sometimes, this tour i'll get for work will give me a chance to play and test it see what i think
Luckily, I won't be running a lot of apps on the one for work, Googlemaps, a weather app, sametime connect (god help me I hate lotus notes!!), maybe a couple more that will help at work but they get picky about it, and i'm not sure how tightly BES admins can monitor what's on your phone and what you're doing etc.
Again, thanks for all your input, Im excited to get my new Tour, if only they'd tell me a date...I hate waiting lol