SOLUTION: How to remove unwanted icons
I don't know if anyone else posted this but I have figured out how to remove unwanted icons from your home screen. The previous solution was to just hide them but I have figured out how to really remove them.
Go to options, then advanced options, then service book
There you will find the icons listed as service book entries. For instance myspace will be listed as "Myspace VPL". All the icons end in VPL. Just highlight the icon you want to remove and select delete.
NOTE: When resending service books the icons will come back.
I deleted these last night and they have not come back yet, hopefully they are gone for good.