Please help me connect to DM via Bluetooth

If anyone can help me I would really appreciate it.

I have the Tour (Verizon) and am looking to sync with Desktop Manager via bluetooth.

I am able to connect to my laptop via bluetooth, but when I open up DM and go to connection options all the bluetooth options are greyed out.

I run Windows XP and the bluetooth program on the computer is - Bluetooth Stack for Windows by Toshiba v4.4.02(D)

Is there anyone one with computer/blackberry savvy that can help me connect?

WOW - Nobody out there is using bluetooth to connect to Desktop Manager?

There may be more discussion of this topic in the Bluetooth Subforum where there is a STICKY thread.

I think you have to use the "native" windows and not any third party drivers.