Did you have your service books sent again? If so and it hasnt appeared try reinstalling .75 OS or upgrade to the .103 OS (id say go with .103 personally...leaps and bounds over .75 but its not official)
I know what I wrote was a lot but I think that may be the best option. The other option would be to download .86 or something, leaving .75 on your computer. Upgrade (the walkthroughs are very good on this forum) to .86 and at least now DM should ask you what apps you want to upgrage, and then your DM should like the post on the last page. Again, I know it may be a tedious process for you but this forum is great for a reference. Just print the pages out first and that way you don't have to worry about it later because you should disconnect from the internet anyway while updating.
Go to Verizon and download .75 and then install on your computer. Once you do that, follow the procedure explained with pictures by devildrifterx. You will not need to reinstall the entire OS, but you will then see the other apps and be able to choose the apps you want.
Thanks to everyone who helped get it thru my head as to what I needed to do. I got it thru DM after I put the OS on my computer.... feeling rather dumb and happy at the same time.