when ever i get a text my phone will vibrate then the ring tone wont play till 3 seconds later and when ever i click anything on my phone to read it ,the phone just freezes for about 2 seconds and the ring tone is still playing . it never use to do this before. I bave bb light and buzz me if that matters.
Try uninstalling both apps. See if that fixes the issue. Then install buzz me. Make sure you have the settings done correctly for it to work. http://www.bigtincan.com/misc/BuzzMeFAQ.html
If the issue still isn't there, then install BBlight.
If you troubleshoot step by step, you should be able to figure out the problem.
If not...then maybe your device is having a conflict with bblight and buzz me running at the same time.