I have my Storm with my BES mail and my personal mail (AOL). I'm using a Today theme I got for free from here I think.
So on the phone, if I get a BES mail, and read it, then if I go to my Outlook (BES) the mail will show up as marked read.
And likewise, if I read an Outlook (BES) email at work, then if I go to my phone, that email will show up as read and go to my read inbox.
However, with my personal email, its different.
If I get the email on the phone, and read it, then if I go to AOL.com and check my mail, that mail shows up as unread.
And likewise, if I read an email on AOL.com and then go to my phone and look at my inbox, that email is marked unopened.
So basically every time I get a personal email, I have to go to two places (phone and aol.com) and make sure the emails are marked read, otherwise the inbox in one the areas shows many unread emails.
But I thought when it asks that, it means to delete it from the phones inbox. So I wouldnt want the email to be deleted from the phones inbox. I just want it to be marked unread?