I may sound like a huge noob, but I have never done this trying to pair a Storm with a Nokia n82, and haven't been able to. It asks for a passcode for his but we have no idea what that passcode is. When I try to connect to his, it asks him for my passcode and we have no idea what that is.
Unless your friend setup a password on his phone, you should be able to input any password on yours (or his) and then have to input the same password on the other device.
