You can't install BB Maps OTA. The OTA link only works for OS 4.1 and 4.2.x. The only way to install BB Maps is through the App Loader. As for getting BB Maps to work, you need to have the BB Maps service book. If you don't have the service book, the icon for bb maps won't show up.
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