if there anyway to delete it or hide it or stop it from collecting all missed calls and emails and everything? its really annoying to have to check that info twice.
You can hide the folder. highlight it, hit the BB button, select hide, and it should be gone.
Just a warning though. Sometimes you will get messages directly to that folder. For example, when you register your BIS service again it send to there. That is the only place to check it. So, if this happens, you will see the icon on the top indicating that you have a new message and you will have to "show all" to select the folder to get rid of the icon.
well i just dont want it to make an alert at the top of the screen.. the icon is fine.. its the icon that appears at the top when there is a missed call or message..
Yes, if its just the notification icon that you dont like, that is theme specific. You can get a theme that just doesnt have that on it....or make one as I believe all the themes available have that.