I do have quicklaunch, but i only use it to send txt to my girlfriend (whom i txt the most). Only sent messages are showing up, no inbox messages regardless of who they are from.
well I don't know why your new messages are not appearing but the reason your sent ones are is due to sending them via quicklaunch. Maybe see if deleting those from your sent folder causes your recived to appear...maybe then the quicklaunch sent are overriding the new.
do I see what? I have five icons on my homescreen. messages, texts, bb messenger, contacts, and calendar (there is also a WB icon in the upper right banner area). when i highlight the messages icon it shows me any new emails (up to 10), when i highlight the text message icon it shows me any new text messages i may have, when i highlight the calendar icon it shows me the next 10 calendar appoinments.