I have the same problem. There is the OZ software that you can download, but I'm having problems with that as well. ATT have stated that they will work until the problem has been solved, but when they couldn't solve the problem the first time, they were really unhelpful to me from that point on - not answering my email questions etc. I see you posted much earlier than I. If you find a solution... please please, let me know.
You need a file called YMESSENGERv2_servicebooks.ipd. This will install the service books that you need to get logged on. I'm not sure where to find it, tho. Google it? Good luck!
Jivetalk is an all in one program. It has myspace msn yahoo and aol if I remember right. Its 20 for a licence for that bb 30 for a licence you can take to your next bb. If I rember the prices correctly.
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