Verizon let's you send... Sprint does cripple this feature. As is posted above, you can send them via email. You should be able to email the phone number and they will get it as an mms. (for Verizon that looks like- [email protected]) I'm not sure what that address is for sprint. You can save that as a second email for those people that you mms often.
Hope this helps!!
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