i have my boyfriend's PIN saved in my phone book and he has mine in his. both of have tried to add one another to the blackberry messenger list, and its been stuck in pending mode for at least a week now. he just got a new blackberry, when he had his old one the messenger worked fine. please tell me what i'm doing wrong!
i have the full internet on mine but my boyfriend is too cheap for it lol
I say dump him!
But really, try deleting the requests, reset the phones (battery pull)
then resending. But only try one way. In other words, don't both of you try at the same time.
I am also having this same problem witih several people.
Is the blackberry messenger through email or PIN? I have one person that I chat with on messenger. I have her PIN number, but she doesn't have mine and we chat all the time.
Other people just sit in pending. but after I added them, in my sent folder on my work email (microsoft exchange) I see an invitation emailed to them?
I personally believe that both need full access to the internet. My friend had the same, issue, in fact, she is still in pending on my Pearl since she does not have full access to the internet. I do and I have no problem with all the other users that have access to the internet.
