Can somebody please help!!!

I'm ready to smash this phone to bits, I can't find the menu to change this setting which seems to have changed on it's own; i'm beyond frustrated.
So when you're on the homescreen and you swipe down from the top of the screen a menu with icons appear for things like 'notifications, device monitor, battery saving, mobile network, wifi, etc. Where is the menu that let's you edit what options appear when you swipe down to make that menu appear? I know i've been to the menu before, in fact the menu seems to have edited itself. I'm going mad trying to find it and Google is no help because I don't know what that menu is called!

Go to settings, then click on Quick Settings :)

Posted via CB10

Swipe down, choose Settings.
Tap Quick Settings.
Check the boxes for the Settings options you want displayed when you swipe down from the top, tap Rearrange to move the items up/down in the list, and/or tap Restore Defaults to reset them back to when you first activated the device.

I swear I clicked everything, I don't know how I missed it. Thanks a lot. I get irrationally frustrated when I loose things and the same feelings popped up from not being able to find this menu....
Thanks again.