1. OkComp's Avatar
    Is there a way to delete a contact from Blackberry Messenger without that person losing me as a contact? I want to get rid of some ppl I've never spoken with, but I don't want them to know
    04-13-09 11:37 AM
  2. John Yester's Avatar
    Nope. but hopefully they will not hold a grudge

    Once you remove them, you will be removed from there list as well.
    04-13-09 11:40 AM
  3. cij1916's Avatar
    If yall never spoke, why don't you want them to know?
    04-13-09 05:06 PM
  4. roxxeee's Avatar
    If yall never spoke, why don't you want them to know?
    yeah, that doesn't make much sense....
    04-13-09 05:16 PM
  5. cruc1a7's Avatar
    Oh oh!

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    04-13-09 05:47 PM
  6. tylerr's Avatar
    if they say something, you can always just tell them you have been having problems with your bbm.
    04-13-09 06:12 PM
  7. Heresy's Avatar
    Well if they dont talk to me I remove them. I dont leave people on my list just to say I have alot of contacts.
    04-13-09 06:46 PM
  8. SwsFoe's Avatar
    if someone deleted me from there list that i never talked to and i found out i would probably kill them..
    04-13-09 06:51 PM
  9. Dubbin1's Avatar
    I understand where the OP is coming from, I deleted someone I never talked to on bbm and he took it personal... I had to put him back on just to make him happy.
    04-13-09 07:06 PM
  10. jlynlove's Avatar
    I was just telling a friend today that I wanted to delete a guy that always seems to mess my day up w/ being an a-hole to my sensitive heart, but I didn't want him to know that I deleted him.....I'm starting to think that BBM is letting other people know too much about how you handle your business.....
    04-13-09 07:28 PM
  11. DX1274's Avatar
    I don't want to talk to you but I don't want to hurt your feelings so I am posting on a forum to see if I can give you the slip behind your back because I don't like confrontations.
    04-13-09 07:39 PM
  12. Crosby 87's Avatar
    if you never talked to them then i doubt they will notice.
    04-13-09 07:47 PM
  13. th30wn4g3's Avatar
    Everyone u wanna delete just read this thread they now hate u

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    04-13-09 08:42 PM
  14. SevereDeceit's Avatar
    Every now and again, ya just gotta delete someone. You will be deleted soon enough and that makes it alot easier, hahaha...
    04-13-09 08:44 PM
  15. tonzds's Avatar
    theres a simple solution to this problem, delete them and if they ever ask tell them you upgraded your o.s and forgot to back everythign up.
    04-13-09 08:46 PM
  16. cij1916's Avatar
    Yall are funny lol
    04-14-09 12:35 AM
  17. franked's Avatar
    If they flip out, tell 'em that you deleted them by accident - you were "actually" going to delete the person right above them.

    Either that or tell 'em how stupid they are for caring about being on a messenger list and to get over it.
    04-14-09 06:25 AM
  18. crackgirly's Avatar
    Ha! Now if anyone gets these excuses, you'll know you were deleted. When I first joined, I had one guy on my list. He deleted me soon after. Guess I asked him way too many BB questions.

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    04-14-09 07:09 AM
  19. Efe Agbontaen's Avatar
    Guys the fact that you do not know how to do it does not mean it is impossible, please visit my tutorial DELETE BBM CONTACTS SILENTLY
    01-28-13 02:34 PM
  20. g2gcya's Avatar
    Delete bbm and reinstall fresh, add back the people u want and those people not on your list will still be on their bbm.
    02-23-13 05:08 AM