When I try to add contacts to my blackberry messenger (sending out invites), whether I send it via PIN or email address, the invite just gets sent to my phone instead (no invite is sent to the PIN or email address i tried).
When I do the same thing from someone else's phone (inviting myself), then it works (an invite is sent to me and I can accept it).
having the same problem on my wifes curve. the request shows up on her phone and when she accepts it doesnt add to the contact list but if I initiate a conversation we can talk back and forth. weird