1) Is there a way to view messages in BBM w/o it showing the little "R" (recieved) icon to the person who sends it? I'm guessing not, but figured you all might know.
2) Often when I send it to one of my friends, it shows the "D" and then the icon grey's out. Does that mean he's idle or that he's just not using BBM.
3) Does anyone have delays in sending BBM messages? Sometimes it seems that I send a message, it shows "D" for delivered but my friend doesn't get it for maybe 15+ minutes.
No, you cant change the delivered and recieved notifications. When you send someone a message if you see D it has not been opened yet. When you see R the other person has opened it and read it...