I too, am having this problem... I used to be able to see all kinds of calendar events both on FB and gmail. now I only see whats 2 days in front of me.. I used to see like 10 things coming up...now its like 2-3??? I am trolling for the answers as well.
First the obvious: open FB app, go to Options and make sure BlackBerry Calendar application is connected. If so or you just set it up a day or two ago then wait. It took mine a day or two to sync completely... Don't know why but it did.
I've never had >3 calendar events in my today/notification bar. I'd like to if it's possible. I seem to max at three calendar events, two emails showing, a couple texts at most, a single RSS, and FB stuff. Anything over that and I have to visit the application itself to see the rest. Can we change the "weight" of these values somewhere in options? I haven't seen it.
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