This is a difficult one. When using BBM if I look at my contact list, it shows all people I have accepted. No problem.
When I go into my address book and press the blackberry button and scroll down to "send to messenger contacts" it lists my contacts. Except in this list there is an additional name listed, that I have not added.
How has this happened and does it mean they are monitoring my phone?
@ KellyJ drummer, I have never contacted this person, so why would they be a recent contact?
@Big Bad Wolf, I do know who it is, but don't want them on my phone. Any idea how I can send them somethign if they are not showing up in my messenger contacts?
Only way you'll see a list of BBM contacts from your address book, is by highlighting a contact first. Create a fictitious contact in there, and send that vcard to the mystery person. They'll show up on your BBM then, in theory.