1. adrian4989's Avatar
    Okay. So, I'm not a blackberry user but I need to know how to distinguish how the threads work. What icon would they be under. What does it look like? Please help.
    08-15-09 03:24 AM
  2. adrian4989's Avatar
    Like, i know my guy isnt texting someone (a girl) but I cannot be sure that he isnt IM'ing her. What do I look for?
    08-15-09 03:26 AM
  3. Bajanbastard's Avatar
    I don't quite understand the question. Could you please rephrase?

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    08-15-09 03:26 AM
  4. sawedust's Avatar
    It appears we have a jealous lover on the lookout for a cheating BF.

    am i rite?

    BBM says BlackBerry Messenger, that would be the IM of choice on the BlackBerry. The other icons, such as AIM, Yahoo!, MSN aka Windows Live, all have the same icons as their desktop counterparts.

    Various IM clients that composite the above, such as Beejive and IM+, have their own icons. Beejive is represented by a honey-comb shape, IM+ is self-explanatory.

    For messages, refer to the Messages icon or the SMS/MMS icon.

    On a bigger picture, it seems you have trust issues and should not be overly concerned over something as minute as chatting with someone else. He wants to be part of your life, and not all of it. And it should be vice versa as well.
    08-15-09 03:32 AM
  5. ndnoutlaw's Avatar
    Just leave him alone....whatever you do....don't touch the BB...you'll screw things up and jak up the device by hittin the wrong buttons

    Posted from my CrackBerry at wapforums.crackberry.com
    08-15-09 03:49 AM
  6. adrian4989's Avatar
    I wasn't asking for your marriage counselling....just how to work the blackberry to see if there are IM's that can help me. By the way...it's never as simple as chatting with someone else. Typically, when a wife is being stalked & abused, there is more going on than just chatting....so thanks anyway.

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    08-15-09 12:47 PM
  7. adrian4989's Avatar
    bajanbastard: Thanks for looking at my question. I'm not familiar with the terms...sorry. I'm under the impression that when I look at my TMobile usage (service is with TMO) I can view texts sent/received but I was told that the IM's are not posted on the usage log because they are used through the data service. So I just wanted to know how can I look up to see if there are any BB IM's that I should know about.
    Does this clarify a little better?
    Thanks for listening.

    Posted from my CrackBerry at wapforums.crackberry.com
    08-15-09 12:51 PM
  8. aristile's Avatar
    Either trust him or break up with him but leave the Blackberry out of it.
    08-15-09 12:54 PM
  9. aristile's Avatar
    bajanbastard: Thanks for looking at my question. I'm not familiar with the terms...sorry. I'm under the impression that when I look at my TMobile usage (service is with TMO) I can view texts sent/received but I was told that the IM's are not posted on the usage log because they are used through the data service. So I just wanted to know how can I look up to see if there are any BB IM's that I should know about.
    Does this clarify a little better?
    Thanks for listening.

    Posted from my CrackBerry at wapforums.crackberry.com
    You can see phone numbers and text message numbers on the bill. Everything else sent to and from a Blackberry is protected and you will not be able to view that data through your account.
    08-15-09 12:56 PM
  10. Brollic's Avatar
    If your that concern ask him...

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    08-15-09 01:27 PM
  11. larrygump's Avatar
    This is exactly why I keep my bb in my pocket....wowza that poor bb is gonna get caught up in a war....I'm gonna start an abused bb shelter....

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    08-16-09 08:51 PM
  12. 3CISSBB's Avatar
    If you don't trust the person you're with, forget the phone and forget the relationship. No trust = no future.

    Leave the phone alone.

    What if he got on here and was asking how to go through your purse???
    08-16-09 09:01 PM
  13. larrygump's Avatar
    If you don't trust the person you're with, forget the phone and forget the relationship. No trust = no future.

    Leave the phone alone.

    What if he got on here and was asking how to go through your purse???
    lmao...........whats phone got to do with it?......to the tina turner tune
    08-16-09 11:43 PM
  14. 3CISSBB's Avatar
    lmao...........whats phone got to do with it?......to the tina turner tune
    As Jim Carey said in Liar Liar...Hit me again Ike, and this time put some stank on it!
    08-16-09 11:45 PM
  15. Ohm4's Avatar
    lmao...........whats phone got to do with it?......to the tina turner tune
    That is great! I agree, stay away from his phone. If you are implying that he abusing you than I suggest you call the police...we can't help you.
    08-17-09 01:03 AM
  16. Milamber's Avatar
    Its people like the OP that make me glad i have a password lock on my phone.
    08-17-09 01:15 AM
  17. aristile's Avatar
    Its people like the OP that make me glad i have a password lock on my phone.
    Now that's no joke!
    08-17-09 01:26 AM
  18. Milamber's Avatar
    Now that's no joke!
    My passwords, bank details, sms/mms/emails are all safe
    08-17-09 03:05 AM
  19. cbwannabe's Avatar
    Like, i know my guy isnt texting someone (a girl) but I cannot be sure that he isnt IM'ing her. What do I look for?
    Simple answer is, it depends.

    Also, IM "conversations" are not necessarily saved. So even if you did push the right buttons, it doesn't mean you'd uncover anything.

    Just ask him!

    Oh and if he's a BB user, chances are he's read this!!
    08-17-09 10:57 AM
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