wtf.. why does everybody think this is a weird question?
a theme for a guy would be with the girls and black letters and for a girl it would be cute angel wings and pink letters..? it can be helpfull to know for what kind of person you are making the theme for..
I saw a really cute one on themes4bb.com. Just go under forums and then pick your device. I just saw it last night. Hope that helps and sorry about your uncle.