Sending video?

I have an EVO 4G and my wife has a Bold 9650 with Sprint. When I shoot a video with my EVO and try to MMs to her, her BB says the file is too large. I have my video set to lowest resolution. The last video was about 3 seconds in length, and size was .90MB. What am I doing wrong? I also tried to e-mail it, and the BB said it couldn't play that kind of file.
The EVO is shooting in mpeg4.

Here's an old CB thread that might be helpful:
http://forums.crackberry.com/f52/mms-size-limit-207682/

If it's correct then even the .9MB file would be larger than the carriers' 350kb max.

Actually, I think that the video is received. The phone says "this video is too large to view on this device". I can view it on my EVO, why not the BB?