Icon Notification??

So I've only had a blackberry for about 4 months bout a fair share of themes from Reflect7 Carbon, !Aspire, Adler, Optique, and ect...My question is this I'm looking for a theme with the OS7 or 6.1 Icons however those like to call it. However I do not want a full fledged "Today Screen", I BBM a lot and do a lot of emailing, along with facebook. What I'm looking for is a theme or i'll even pay someone to customize one for me. Because I use my own wallpaper. Is a theme that has a certain icon layout which when a notification pops up regardless of what it is appears on the homescreen in "preview format." Does anyone know a theme like this or want to deal with me and make one for a price?

Thanks..