Had same problem with calendar. Had to go to options > advanced options > default services > change calendar default. As far as email, make sure you resent your service books for your email addresses under setup > email settings > menu > service books. And I don't think sms works now because its threaded now with convo's and not individual sms's. Hope that helps with atleast one problem.
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