Terry, Ive been successful with downloading from this site (of course) and tuneusin.com. Some sites might not be berry friendly.
Do you have a sim card? Are you trying to download the tones directly to your phone memory or your sim card?
Seems as if Terry got scared. Don't be afraid to try and explain in your own words what you've done and where you're having difficulties. Each and everyone of us has asked for help at one time or another, and we all take pleasure in helping each other. C'mon in and make yourself at home at the Crack!
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