Why i cant found my contact was invited

Hello team
Im Ayu, please help my problem on my bbm application.
I have invitation, if im invite someone, they accept me and have me on they feed but lost quickly. I have same case on my invited, if iminvite they, they accepted then have they on my feed then lost again. I search on my contact and not found. Always like that since i change my phone to iphone (before i use android). Please helppppp me, i can invite others but cant found they on my contact.
Pls answered me quick on [email protected]

So you are using an iPhone?
If so, read this.https://supportforums.blackberry.com...S/td-p/2636143

I have had an issue happen while accepting an invite I had to select a different contact group than default "BBM Contacts"... this was BB10

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I think this fellow sent me a BBM invite earlier.

"Ayu"

And I declined his invite.

I think his problem is randomly inviting others and since we are getting spammed by Indonesians all day long every day, it makes everyone that sends a BBM invite suspect.

I think his problem is whom he is sending BBM invites to. Perhaps he should try it with people he knows first before branching out into the unknown.

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