I know the answer is probably buried somewhere on these forums but to be frank i have lost the will with this problem now.
Ok, so got the BB Torch 9800. nice phone, 1st BB.
I can send PIN invites and people receive them "most of the time" however my partner with the BB Bold does not get any invite pop-up and neither do i when she adds me via PIN. Same goes for barcode scanning, no alert to accept or anything.
So to sum up i have people added to BBM but can see invites and my partner doesnt see my invites although others do.