I don't think you should not expect to see BBM messages in the Today area. (I'm sure I will be corrected if I am mistaken, but I don't recall ever seeing BBM messages display in the Today area on any BB device running any OS.)
Few other questions whilst ive got you here:
battery pulls do i need to take the battery out for 30seconds or just momentarily?
Is there a way to set up bedside mode as a profile so i can switch it on without having to go to the clock?
BBM messages are classified as "Instant Messages" on your device.
"Messages" are different. The term "Messages" refers to Email, Level 1, MMS, PIN and SMS Text messages ONLY.
There is an option in BBM to "Show Chats in Messages Application" which does exactly what it says it does. It allows you to view BBM chats from within the Messages Application on your device.
However, the "Messages" section of your Today screen is not the Messages Application. It uses the default definition of "Messages" which does not include BBM messages.
Few other questions whilst ive got you here:
battery pulls do i need to take the battery out for 30seconds or just momentarily?
Is there a way to set up bedside mode as a profile so i can switch it on without having to go to the clock?
RIM's instructions for resetting the device: "Remove and reinsert the battery."
I've personally never found any benefit from leaving it out any longer than it takes to put back in.
Though some people do report "feeling better" waiting 30 seconds before reinserting...
As for bedside mode, one of the main features of bedside mode is the ability to have a bedside clock (most useful with a charging pod). So without the clock, what is it about bedside mode that you wish to have as a profile, that you can't set up as a profile?
Originally Posted by spasypaddy
yeah that makes sense, is there a way to change the priority of messages so that they become level1 or some such?
To change the priority of messages to Level 1, you can create an email filter through your BlackBerry Internet Service account. For detailed instructions on how to do this, take a look at this post from the BlackBerry Technical Solution Center.