I downloaded Ring & Vibrate download for Blackberry - Softpedia ... I checked the box for Ring and Vibrate, but its being weird. It's not doing it at the same time. SMS, etc. Not sure what's going on.
I don't know about that app, but on one I tried in the past, you had to set the ring in the profile so it was tone only. The program added the vibe to that.
Make sure you set your phone calls for ring only in your profile, the vibration part is handled by the app. Same goes for vibrate mode, turn your phone calls to mute and the vibration will be handled by the app.
As for SMS, I have yet to run across an app that does vibration and ring for anything other than a phone call.
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