First of all..make sure you are setting the correct one
BBM alert is used when you send a bbm to a person and that person doesn't read it in a timely manner and the little clock appears or they are unreachable. WHen they either read the message or become reachable, the alert will sound telling you they are available now.
BBM Message is just that, a tone that plays everytime you receive a message.
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