[vsaul]

as of one week ago i am unable to add blackberry contacts, whenever i add them they remain in the pending column even if they accept~ i tried deleting messenger and reinstalling, i resent serivce books nothing didnt work! plz help

[Xopher]

Do you have a data plan?

Are you on BIS or BES?

Are you able to browse the web over your data plan?

Are you getting push e-mail?

What happens if someone tries to add you? Do you get their request?

[vsaul]

yes i have a data plan, i have bis and i am able to receive emails as well as use my internet browser! just a particular girl who was in my contact list i was sending messages to her and she is not receiving them so i deleted her! when i re added her through her pin she accepts but i am seeing her in pending status so i added her through email and she accepts and she is now in my contact list but she is seeing my messages but i am not seeing hers! when i add other ppl i only get some not all in my contact list the rest showing as pending