Sending via Blutooth

Newbie here!
Taking it one day at a time - if I don't I'll chuck the thing back to US cellular-
so much to learn
but today's question is this:

Please walk me thru sharing ringtones or songs via Bluetooth.
I seem to be able to send them
but not recieve them.

Thanks.:p:

Dunno, but on my storm I need to go to the folder that will be receiving the file and select "receive using bluetooth" then go to the PC /phone and select "Send".