Help! Messenger Never Ending Pending Status

Here's my problem...my BB is now on my company's BB server. Up until that change over I was able to Messenger everyone on my contact list. When I re-invited everyone (individually) all but one became active. The last one never clears the Pending stage. I know my friend has accepted but it never clears :confused:! I've sent her an invite at least 15 times with no luck.

She's tried inviting me as a BB Messenger contact but I never get her invite. Any suggestions on what I can do to solve my dilemma?

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Originally Posted by lettyinsf

Here's my problem...my BB is now on my company's BB server. Up until that change over I was able to Messenger everyone on my contact list. When I re-invited everyone (individually) all but one became active. The last one never clears the Pending stage. I know my friend has accepted but it never clears :confused:! I've sent her an invite at least 15 times with no luck.

She's tried inviting me as a BB Messenger contact but I never get her invite. Any suggestions on what I can do to solve my dilemma?

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Sound like the problem is with your Company Server. Check with your IT dept and see if they can help you.

I had the same problem with my friend. I can't add him and he can't add me but it I think its cos he hasn't got the email service and an unlimited data but really not sure why? Is this the problem?

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could be that they dont have the blackberry plan so the pin wouldnt work, not 100% tho, i have read some other posts on here about that, but not recalling off the top of my head the outcomes.

My friend does have an active email service plan. We both got our BB's at the same time and we were able to Messenger without any problems for a while. Then I switched from the AT&T BIS to the BB Enterprise Server and from that point on we haven't been able to connect. All my other invites went through, except for hers.

Are you making sure you request by PIN and not email.